05
Jan
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I take courage Posted by Marilyn de Guehery

"When I consider the magnitude of the subject which I am to bring before the House- a subject, in which the interests, not of this country, nor of Europe alone, but of the whole world, and of posterity, are involved: and when I think, at the same time, on the weakness of the advocate who has undertaken this great cause-when these reflections press upon my mind, it is impossible for me not to feel both terrified and concerned at my own inadequacy to such a task. But when I reflect, however, on the encouragement which I have had, through the whole course of a long and laborious examination of this question, and how much candour I have experienced, and how conviction has increased within my own mind, in proportion as I have advanced in my labours;-when I reflect, especially, that however averse any gentleman may now be, yet we shall all be of one opinion in the end; when I turn myself to these thoughts,

I take courage. I determine to forget all my other fears, and I march forward with a firmer step in the full assurance that my cause will bear me out, and that I shall be able to justify upon the clearest principles, every resolution in my hand, the avowed end of which is, the total abolition of the slave trade. 

 

As soon as ever I had arrived thus far in my investigation of the slave trade,

I confess to you sir, so enormous so dreadful, so irremediable did its wickedness appear that my own mind was completely made up for the abolition.

A trade founded in iniquity, and carried on as this was, must be abolished, let the policy be what it might, let the consequences be what they would,

I from this time determined that I would never rest till I had effected its abolition."

-William Wilberforce, May 12, 1789

 


 

January 11th is Human Trafficking Awareness Day in the US. Human Trafficking is a form of modern day slavery. From Jan 1st-11th, we’ll be posting daily blogs with inspiration from the history of the movement to end slavery. Our resolution is to protect & defend the vulnerable and to restore & empower survivors. Join us in beginning 2012 by pausing to recharge our spirits as we carry on towards the end of slavery and the sexual exploitation of children.

04
Jan
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Why Don't you Come and Relieve Me? Posted by Marilyn de Guehery

"...As you were speaking this morning of little children, I was looking around and thinking it was most beautiful. ...Of such there's millions -- who goes to teach them? You have teachers for your children but who will teach the poor slave children?

I believe in Jesus, and I was forty years a slave but I did not know how dear to me was my posterity. I was so beclouded and crushed. But how good and wise is God, for if the slaves knowed what their true condition was, it would be more than the mind could bear. While the race is sold of all their rights -- what is there on God's footstool to bring them up? Has not God given to all his creatures the same rights? I learned that I was a human being… But I believe in the next world. When we gets up yonder, we shall have all of them rights 'stored to us again -- all that love what I've lost -- all going to be 'stored to me again. Oh! How good God is.

My mother said when we were sold, we must ask God to make our masters good, and I asked who He was. She told me, He sit up in the sky. When I was sold, I had a severe, hard master, and I was tied up in the barn and whipped. Oh! Till the blood run down the floor and

I asked God, 'why don't you come and relieve me? -- if I was you and you'se tied up so, I'd do it for you.'"

-Sojourner Truth, Address to the Friends of Human Progress Meeting, October 1856


January 11th is Human Trafficking Awareness Day in the US. Human Trafficking is a form of modern day slavery. From Jan 1st-11th, we’ll be posting daily blogs with inspiration from the history of the movement to end slavery. Our resolution is to protect & defend the vulnerable and to restore & empower survivors. Join us in beginning 2012 by pausing to recharge our spirits as we carry on towards the end of slavery and the sexual exploitation of children.

21
Apr
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Real Men Posted by Rob Morris

 

If you do not know by now, Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore recently launched their “Real Men Don’t Buy Girls” Campaign through their organization the DNA Foundation. There has been a lot of media buzz surrounding the campaign and even some debate over how effective it is in addressing the demand that fuels the exploitation and trafficking of children.

When I speak at an event, people often ask; “What can I do?’ In addition to giving some practical ideas of how people can engage with ending modern day slavery, I tell people to bring what they already have to the movement. Contributing their education, vocation, life experience, talents, finances, etc., can make a difference.

I think Ashton and Demi are doing just that. They are leveraging their public platforms, influence, relationships, technology, and yes…even sense of humor to provoke, challenge, and shed light on an issue that few want to talk about. The Real Men Campaign is designed to increase awareness and get people talking. And yes…awareness alone is never enough. But it is something. And if that awareness leads to effective action then we are one day closer to ending the trafficking and exploitation of children. I agree with Emerson who said; “An ounce of action is worth a ton of theory.”

Personally…I’ve never opened a beer bottle with a remote control. I’ve never shaved with a chainsaw. I’ve never made a grilled cheese sandwich with an iron. And honestly, if I snapped my ankle in half, coming down from a jump shot…I would probably just lie there in pain and not get up.
So...I’ve added my own thoughts to what I think a real man is:

Real men not only don’t buy girls, they don’t see ANY human being as a commodity or an object to be used for their own instant gratification.

Real men rebel against a culture that continually normalizes the objectification and exploitation of women and girls.

Real men treat women and girls with respect and champion gender equality, refusing to tolerate gender bias or discrimination.

Real men are proud of and not threatened by empowered women in their lives.

Real men raise their sons to respect women and girls by the way they treat their own wives, girl friends and daughters.

Real men raise their own daughters to be confident in the understanding that their value and worth (as girls…or as human beings for that matter) is based on who they are and not on their sexuality.

Real men empower their daughters to believe and know that they can be anything they aspire to be.

Real men love their daughters in a way that they grow up feeling safe, cared for, loved and cherished so they won’t have to look somewhere else to have those needs met, making them vulnerable to those with evil intentions.

Real men don’t abandon their families when the going gets tough or the “grass looks greener on the other side”, leaving their wife and children wondering what a “real man” really is.

Real men respect and appreciate vulnerability instead of take advantage of it.

Real men practice self-control.

Real men speak up, call each other out and hold each other accountable to all of the above.

Hopefully, campaigns and movements challenge and affect the way we live. And if we are ever going to see the end of the exploitation and trafficking of children, then men have to live differently. We have to LIVE like “real men.” And that’s the hard part. But that’s the part that will change everything. That’s the part that matters in the end.

The reality is that it’s easier to “walk it off” than it is to live a life worthy of being called a “real man.”
What would you add to this list? Finish the sentence: Real Men…

Rob

President & Cofounder of Love146

Follow me on twitter here and contribute to the conversation the @DNAFoundation has sparked. Finish the sentence on twitter: #RealMen ....?
 

27
Sep
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Love Until it Hurts Posted by Marilyn de Guehery

"I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love."

Mother Teresa

900 Miles. On Bikes.

You read right. Eight hoosiers (aka Indiana locals) are riding from Indianapolis to New York City, and they're on the road as I type somewhere in western Pennsylvania. These eight people weren't cyclists. They're ordinary people who are taking their call as abolitionists to an extraordinary level. Why? While they are doing it to get your attention and raise money, their purposes go much deeper. I've copied these entries from their blog, "To Freedom, For Freedom." This is why they're riding. In their own words...


RIDER: Lindsey Hein
"146.  Picture a child with that number pinned on her shirt.  That is what she is to the man that walks in the door to purchase her for the hour or maybe the night.  Does that make you sick?  What if this little girl was your daughter?  Fathers, get angry.  This is a tragic reality to children who are no different from your own daughters.

Sometimes when I think about this horrible injustice that goes on all over the world, the easiest thing to do is push it aside and go about my happy little life.  It is so profoundly sad what these little girls are enduring.  It hurts if you go to the place in your heart that is deep enough to honestly disrupt your life. But is it worth it to go there?  It's sick how easy it is to block this mess out of my mind and think I am just one person and I can't do big things. I won't do that though- I can't.  It's not fair.  These little girls deserve the happy, safe, carefree childhood that I had.  These little girls deserve to ride bikes, play soccer, climb on monkey bars and play tag. 

They deserve to curl up on their dad's lap at night and fall asleep feeling safe.  Picture your favorite childhood memory and take that away.  That's not ok.
I am riding my bike from Indianapolis to New York with some amazing friends in hopes to raise awareness for this issue.  I don't even feel right calling it an issue to be honest... it's more than an issue it is a disgusting reality.

I do not enjoy riding my bike much.  I like the idea of riding.  I like the idea of saying I can ride my bike all the way to New York.  In all reality though, I am a runner.  I love running, I am good at running and most of all I enjoy it... so naturally I could run a few marathons and raise awareness for Love 146.  That would not challenge me though.  I'm going to run the marathons either way.  I am not however going to ride my bike to New York either way.  So when I am riding on the fifth day of our trip, hating the way my body feels, I'm not going to think of my pain or what I feel at that moment.  I am going to think about a little girl who deserves the same childhood I had.  She deserves to be free.  I'm not riding for me.  I'm riding for her."


RIDER: Adam Bocik
I am a musician.  I am a husband.  I am a student.  I am an entrepreneur.  I am an activist.  I am not a cyclist.

Don't get me wrong; I enjoy a leisurely ride in the woods, but the thought of a 7 mile bike ride to work on regular roads with cars and trucks and people looking out their windows thinking, "He must have gotten a DUI," just isn't that appealing to me.  Needless to say, riding a bicycle to New York City was not my first option for two weeks of vacation time this year.
As my wife and I's passion for human rights and social justice has grown over the past few years though, we decided we wanted to do something practical and tangible this year.  As we began to discuss possible options, the idea to do this ride was presented, and we agreed; this was it.  Despite the dread I may feel when I think about how my butt is going to feel after riding 6 to 8 hours, 7 days consecutively, I cannot help but compare my mild and temporary discomfort to the horrible and grotesque realities that face millions of women and children around the world every day.  Upon which I realize, there is no comparison.
So, I will be... a cyclist.


RIDER: Amanda Bocik
When I was first awakened by the reality of young children and women being sold into slavery for sex, I was utterly disturbed and broken.  I weeped.  I had no idea these kind of crimes were happening today.  I became very passionate about the rescue and restoration of these victims.
When the idea came to ride from Monument Circle in downtown Indianapolis, Indiana to the Statue of Liberty in New York City to raise awareness and support for this cause, I thought about how crazy it seemed to do it. Then one day, as I was reflecting on this adventure, a picture came to my mind.  It was an image of a stranger carrying the burden of a broken and beaten being.  It was beautiful.
Suddenly, I was filled with the realization that this is why I must ride.  These children have been abused, broken, and exploited.  This ride is my way of trying to carry some of their burden.  I am a stranger and at times I have questioned my sanity, my ability, and my purpose to take on such a monumental task as this 900+ mile ride.  Then I remember their faces - their numbers.  This is why I ride to the symbol of freedom, for freedom.


RIDER: Kaylin Linnemann
27 Million people cannot ride their bikes to freedom; but I can. 
27 Million people cannot bring awareness to the fastest growing crime in the world; but I can. 
 
I first heard about human trafficking two years ago in a world affairs class at the Fashion Institute of Technology. A few months later I was invited to see a film called “Call and Response.” The film is based on a technique used in African music known as call and response. Call and response was so critical to the African slave trade because it involved the audience.  The vision of “Call and Response” is to place the call out to the audience with hopes of rallying a response to modern day slavery that creates a bottom-up movement. I am responding to the call on September 24, 2010 by riding my bike from Indianapolis, Indiana to New York City and the Statue of Liberty in order to raise money and awareness for Love 146 and the issue of child exploitation…. to freedom, for freedom.


Shout out and thanks to the others on this team, Cary Teeple, Debi Teeple, Glenn Hein, Brooke Trindle, Greg Anderson, & Lori Anderson.

Closing in the words of one of my new heroines, Lindsey Hein,

"This is real. Be moved and be one more person who fights for the freedom of these beautiful girls."

 

Inspired and Grateful,

Marilyn

 

ps: If this has inspired you as well and you'd like to support the To Freedom For Freedom ride, you can donate here.

06
Dec
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New Website! Posted by Ben Hart

Love146 is exceptionally proud to introduce our new website to the world.  We wanted to create a site that really demonstrated who we are and what we believe, and we think we have achieved that.  We wanted a site that focuses on hope and restoration.  We are by no means naive of the darkness of child sex slavery and exploitation, but we do not exist because of the darkness.  We exist because of the hope on the other side of darkness.  We exist because of a love story that has captured all of our hearts.  A story of broken children becoming whole.  A story of thousands rising up and shouting "No, we will not be satisfied until we see this end". 

17
Oct
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Schooled by compassion Posted by Anonymous

The last 8 months have been a beautiful steep learning curve for me. My family and I just moved up to work with Love146 about 8 months ago now. I don’t think there has been a moment here where I haven’t learned something. From how to work the Love146 fax & coffee machine to just how deep and dark this issue goes, I have learned so much! Between news articles and films, to lectures and office conversations, I have been so privileged to be here. I am often asked what I have learned during this 8 months. What is the one thing I have learned? I have thought about it a ton and while it might be hard to pull out one thing I think I can…
I have learned the face of this issue here…in my own streets, in my own city, in my nation. In the middle of my learning I have come to realize not only how blind I have been to the issue here, but I have also seen a lack of compassion in myself that is disturbing.


16
Sep
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U.S. Slavery Documentary Posted by Love146

A new documentary produced by George Clooney, Grant Heslov, Steven Soderbergh and Libby Spears

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